Monday 7 May 2012

Saturday, 5th May 1950

Saturday, 5th May 1950

Dear Diary,

Oh happy day!! Today my darling brother Lloyd has married Cynthia, the girl of his dreams. The whole day has been so gloriously magical, blessed with lovely sunshine all day and the bride and groom were both positively radiant. Mummy and Pops were so proud to see their only son marry such a smashing gal. Lloyd met Cynthia last year on a hiking holiday in the Pyrenees; it was love at first sight. He proposed at the top of a mountain, so terribly romantic.

The wedding was the most glamorous occasion and everyone was dressed so impeccably. Naturally I chose the sophistication and style of the teal Clara Dress with black satin gloves and a floral fascinator for my hair. I must say it was remarkable to see so many others wearing dresses from my boutique! Whilst the guests were waiting in church for the bride to arrive, I noticed how Beryl and Sandra (my second cousins twice removed) looked stunning as they arrived together, wearing the Vivian and Greta dress by Eliza & Ethan. Glancing around the other pews I spotted a lady sitting on the Bride’s side wearing the Louche Cosmia dress and another sporting the Hatty dress with a black wide brimmed hat, simply marvellous! 



At last the bride arrived wearing a bridal gown that was divinely extravagant. The ceremony was wonderfully moving and several Aunts wept as the choir gave an emotive rendition of ‘Ave Maria’. The reception buffet was a marvel of catering excellence, quite an impressive spread considering the current circumstances with rationing. I must declare that the wedding cake was certifiably real and simply delicious. I’ll never forget the wedding cake at my Aunt Emily’s wedding during the blitz. An elaborately decorated cardboard box ‘iced’ with painted plaster covered a plain old Victoria sponge cake underneath; it was quite a clever really.

I must admit I choked back a little tear when I failed to catch the wedding bouquet, yet I was shocked and alarmed that my mother did!! But dear old Aunt Matilda consoled me with a story about the origin of the bouquet tradition that dates back many centuries. She reassured me that it has absolutely nothing to do with becoming the next bride-to-be. The custom was for the guests to grasp at the bride’s clothing in an attempt to steal a momento in order to share the luck and happiness of the new bride. The bride would try to protect her gown, and escape the guests from chasing her by throwing her bouquet of flowers into the crowd. My goodness, I don’t know which scenario is more ghastly, poor Cynthia running away from the guests to preserve her dignity or the obligation of being a bridesmaid at my own mother’s wedding?


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